Cruising through Life

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 I live at a beautiful Independent Living gated community. I’ve lived here almost two years. I love it!

I call it “The Cruise Ship that doesn’t leave the dock.”

We have a salt water heated pool, a movie theatre, a billiard room, a craft room, a huge dining room, a work out room, a beautician, a manicurist, trade shows, almost daily activities…. It’s been an amazing experience.

I had just turned 59 when I moved in. I came from a 4 bedroom house where I felt isolated . I wasn’t cooking, I was struggling to keep up with the cleaning… I  needed support and a community.



These are actual pictures of my apartment. I paid extra to have the accent walls pained “Seaworthy “. I made this my home. I have a two bedroom, one and a half bathroom unit and it’s become “home “ to me. 
Making friends anywhere is difficult, especially when you consider the “digital” age of cell phones and Zoom calls. I need people. 
My quality of life has greatly improved because I was willing to take this step, be vulnerable, talk to strangers, participate in activities, “engage”.
I want to thank the community that became my family at  “Cedarhurst of Woodland Hills” in Tulsa, Oklahoma .
I walked out of silence and sadness onto a cruise ship that never leaves the harbor. My life is better for being h

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